My Cozy Casita

Love is not a destination.  It is a journey that people agree to take together, and a person also takes with themselves.  April is a wonderful month for me.  My wedding anniversary and Bettsy’s birthday a week apart.  It has become a little holiday season for both of us.  What have I learned about Love in this journey?  Every chapter has presented a new mission, a new call.  There have been many junctures, even in this Iyaworaje where the challenge was not easy.  We could have been stuck in shoulds and woulds - but Bettsy always listens to my places of insecurities and brings the real fire in her spirit.  That has always been both of us.  I have been the air/water and she has been the fire.  Libra and Aries.  From her I always learn how to not give up, how to be affirmed in myself and in love.  She may not know how she teaches me these things when she also feels her flaws or insecurities, but it’s in her expressing her humanity that I am always so inspired.

Betts loves fiercely.  Sometimes the odds are placed against us and still she finds a way to make it work.  Even when she is tired or thinks she has no reserves, she finds the next spark to fire it up.  

My Love - you may have a lot of feelings about this year, the challenges and the meanings but know that I am next to you loving all you are and everything you bring. Thank you for bringing my Birthday Princess every year since we have come together. Always up for our adventures and our discoveries together.  Every step of this journey you restore my faith.  Happy Birthday my Heart.